If you do not want to be notified every time a person posts in a topic you created simple follow these steps:
1. Click on "Profile" from the menu bar under our banner
2. Click on "Preferences"
3. Under the section that says "Always notify me of replies" select "no".
This will allow you to only be notified of the topics you wish to be notified about. When you are posting in a topic if you want a notification simply click "watch this topic" and you will be notified about it.
How to Change Character Sheet: (the words under your avatar)
1. Click on "Profile" from the menu under our banner.
2. On the right under the menu click "Character Sheet"
3. Fill out the fields so they will appear below your avatar when you post. If you don't see the fields click on "generate the sheet" to get them to appear.